Have you been in conversations criticizing leaders and team members who seemed to have low self awareness? Have you wondered if you could be a conversation topic among your colleagues?

What is the impact if you are a poor observer of yourself?

Consider some of these possibilities when you are a poor observer of self:

▶ You project your anger / insecurities on others 

▶ You believe that people must be able to see your point of view and you name it as common sense

▶ You believe you show up with the same level of performance daily and ignore the impact of your moods and emotions

▶ You expect people to live out standards that you can’t

▶ You say “Yes” to one thing without knowing that decision means saying many “No” to other things and vice versa

▶ You have a strong opinion that you put forth as a truth, not knowing that your opinion says more about who you are than the matter itself

The above 6 statements are part of a coaching resource on uncovering blindspots. These are common observations based on more than a thousand hours of coaching practice as an ontological coach.

So why is Self-Awareness so important?

👉🏻You can’t change what you don’t see👈🏻

▶ One of the most transformational experience is to notice the way you see the world or “taking a look at how you look at things”

We need more love, kindness and compassion in this world.

We need more to have greater self awareness in how they are impacting others at home and at work.

We need more consciousness in our families and workplace.

▶ My hope is this article will create some curiosity for yourself - what might be your blindspots?

We invest in different experiences to enrich our lives including spending on traveling, food, adventures.

▶ Coaching is an experience that can be transformational. It is an investment for yourself and your loved ones. Why not consider investing in your growth?

Consider reaching out and scheduling a coaching conversation with me. You will also receive the full resource with 20 statements that shine a light on various areas of blindspots,

Written by Victor Seet
Activator • Communication • Strategic • Self-Assurance • Command

Victor is an accredited ICF Advanced Certified Team Coach (ACTC) and Professional Certified Coach (PCC) based in Singapore. Victor coaches teams to leverage their collective strengths, get clear on ways of engagement and ways of working to strengthen team and interpersonal dynamics. He intentionally integrates the strengths-based approaches and emotional agility into his team and 1-1 coaching and facilitation workshops.